Suspecting that your child’s other parent is abusing them is one of the most distressing experiences a parent can face. Whether it’s physical abuse, emotional mistreatment, or sexual misconduct, your first duty is to protect your child. Fortunately, Washington State provides legal tools and protections to help you act quickly and responsibly.
At Story Law, our experienced child custody attorneys in Bellevue are here to guide you through every step—from immediate action to long-term legal strategy.
Recognize the Types of Abuse: Physical, Verbal, Emotional, Sexual
Understanding what qualifies as child abuse helps you take the right steps:
Physical abuse: Hitting, slapping, bruising, shaking, or any form of physical harm.
Verbal abuse: Constant yelling, name-calling, threats, or humiliation.
Emotional or mental abuse: Isolation, manipulation, belittling, or controlling behavior.
Sexual abuse: Any inappropriate sexual contact, exposure, or exploitation.
Each of these forms of abuse is taken seriously under Washington law and can significantly affect custody arrangements if substantiated.
Gather Evidence Carefully
If you suspect abuse, start collecting relevant documentation immediately. This may include:
- Photographs of injuries
- Notes from doctors, teachers, or therapists
- Recordings or written communications that contain threats or harmful language
- Observations of behavioral changes in your child
This evidence will be crucial in court proceedings or with child protective services. Accuracy and documentation matter.
Report Suspected Abuse to the Authorities
You don’t need definitive proof to report suspected abuse—only reasonable concern.
Washington State allows anyone to report abuse by contacting:
- Child Protective Services (CPS) at 1‑866‑ENDHARM (1‑866‑363‑4276)
- Your local police or sheriff’s department
Reports made in good faith are confidential and protected by law. Prompt reporting not only safeguards your child but also creates an official record.
Seek a Child Protection Order (CPO)
If your child is in immediate danger, a Child Protection Order can provide fast, enforceable legal protection.
A CPO may:
- Prohibit the abusive parent from contacting the child
- Restrict or eliminate visitation
- Offer temporary full custody to the non-abusive parent
These orders are often granted swiftly and may lead to long-term changes in the parenting plan.
Modify Custody Through the Courts
If abuse is ongoing or substantiated, you can file to modify your existing custody agreement. With the help of a child custody lawyer, you can:
- Request sole legal and physical custody
- Ask for supervised or suspended visitation
- Present evidence that visitation with the abusive parent would harm the child
Washington courts always prioritize the child’s best interest—especially when abuse is involved.
Prepare for Custody Hearings or Evaluations
Serious accusations may prompt the court to appoint professionals such as:
Guardian ad Litem (GAL): A neutral advocate who investigates and reports on the child’s best interests.
Custody evaluator: A licensed mental health expert who conducts interviews, home visits, and assessments.
These professionals provide vital input during custody hearings. Be honest, organized, and focused on your child’s well-being during all interactions.
Understand the Risk of False Allegations
While your instinct to protect your child is vital, making false claims can backfire. Courts take false accusations seriously.
If you raise concerns:
- Be truthful
- Rely on facts and observations
- Avoid exaggeration or speculation
The legal system exists to protect genuine victims, but honesty and evidence are essential.
Consider Mediation with Caution
In cases involving abuse, mediation may not be appropriate. However, if ordered by the court, mediation may be managed by:
- A Guardian ad Litem
- A parenting coordinator trained in handling high-conflict or abuse-related custody issues
Always consult with your attorney before agreeing to mediation when safety is a concern.
Use Supervised Visitation When Appropriate
If the court allows the other parent limited contact, supervised visitation may be ordered.
This ensures:
- Visits take place in a secure setting
- A trained monitor is present at all times
- Any inappropriate behavior is documented
This setup helps preserve the parent-child relationship safely—if appropriate.
Work with a Trusted Child Custody Lawyer
Cases involving suspected abuse require experienced, strategic, and compassionate legal representation. A skilled lawyer can:
- File emergency protection orders
- Help present evidence clearly and lawfully
- Modify parenting plans to reflect the child’s safety needs
- Advocate for supervised visitation or full custody
At Story Law, our team knows how to respond quickly and thoroughly in situations involving suspected abuse. We provide the clarity and legal protection you need in uncertain times.
Story Law is Here to Help You
If you suspect your child is being abused by the other parent, don’t delay.
Contact Story Law today to speak with a Bellevue-based child custody attorney who understands how to take immediate action and protect your child through the Washington legal system.
